Being good at something doesn't promise rewards. It doesn't even promise a compliment. What's rewarded in the world is scarcity, so what matters is what you can do that other people are bad at, writes James Clear.
In my six active years in the financial markets, I have scrutinized my biggest losses, and this is what they reveal:
The business arena is competitive, filled with people overcoming challenges every day. It's the incredibly difficult challenges that give us the opportunity to pull ahead. In a competitive world, adversity is our friend. The harder it gets, the better chance you have of insulating yourself from the competition.
It's like a marathon race: before you can break away from other runners, you have to survive what they cannot survive — a steep hill, a faster pace, weather conditions, etc. You do not break away when it's easy; you break away, if ever you do, when it is hardest for everyone else, including yourself. But, having insulated yourself from failure before, you feel pain, you feel the blows of big losses, but you are not paralyzed by them into inaction. Because you've turned them into a friend. That is, you are more prepared and capable of enduring longer periods of suffering.
I arrived at this observation distinctly while reviewing an investment I made in the commodities market, where I was shaken out with a large loss before the investment proved successful. We'll create another analogy for what it means to be 'shaken' out.
It's more like a large filter, a wall that seems impregnable to inexperienced eyes. If you have run or cycled competitively before, you will understand how difficult the process is: a steep hill will leave you out of breath, a fast pace will force you to walk later on, and hot weather will exhaust you. In business and sports, we face similar challenges. Leverage, which means risking big to win big, will threaten your financial stability. One loss can send you back to your grandmother's house, with little to nothing. Losing months will cause self-doubt and relapse into negative thinking patterns, even relapse into negative lifestyle habits.
But both runner and entrepreneur need to survive these challenges in order to break ahead into victory or profitability. Without risking big, how can you ever break free of relying on JOBS (Just Over Broke)? Without a fast pace, how can you ever get the gold medal?
You have to start by identifying the unspoken rules in your situation. What constraints do others face, and how can you turn those into strengths? Shane Parrish challenges us to introspect.
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